“In life, anyone who knows what is truly important to them will shine. In relationships, anyone who can listen fearlessly will thrive.”


  • “We found that at times of crisis it was almost impossible to ‘see the wood for the trees’ and found ourselves in a downward spiral of negativity. Winnie and Barry really helped put things into perspective – and all via telephone sessions.  The beauty of their work is that all the answers we needed we found within ourselves and they effortlessly managed to bring it out of us which we found a wonderfully empowering experience.  We would recommend Barry and Winnie’s coaching services to anyone who needs focus and clarity.”


  • “I recommend Winnie to all my friends!  We first went to Winnie for marriage counselling- our marriage was seriously on the rocks and I was mainly looking for a peaceful way out, two years on my husband and I have never been happier and that is thanks to Winnie’s guidance. ”

  • “Barry inspires confidence and positivity from the moment you first meet him. His intuitive approach is presented with warmth, grace and humour. Like all truly great teachers Barry communicates his wisdom seemingly without effort. He has been the catalyst to helping me live life closer to my truth.”

  • Winnie is a great facilitator and her integrity, patience and calmness has made the whole experience feel very safe and rewarding.”

  • “Barry has been a part of my family’s ’emotional tool kit’ for a good 10 years. We go to him when one of us gets stuck with a problem or deliberation and we can’t see a way forward. I have always found Barry’s approach works for me because it’s not based on the past, but the here and now. He gives you tools to use that enable you to go forward, and most importantly that help bring clarity.”

  • “The work we have done has been invaluable in every area of my life – real life-changing stuff.”

  • “Winnie has guided me and shown me  how to communicate from a place of love instead of ego. She has helped me to understand that the aggression of another comes from their own pain and fear. She has shown me that through being loving with myself, only then can I be loving to others”.

  • “This has been the jolt I needed. I think I have finally got the message about my life and am actually doing something about it!”

  • “I have worked with Winnie for over 4 years now and I have learnt so much about relationships and how it is only ever really about you; about how your partner is your best teacher in life; about how to listen with validation and compassion whilst having your own boundaries; about the power struggles; about the universal desire to feel LOVED and to LOVE. I cannot recommend her highly enough.”

  • “What I received from Barry was of inestimable help. He has taught me ways of looking at problems that I didn’t know. I have found him a generous, sharing, understanding companion on a difficult journey and I have reached a much more satisfactory destination than I could have done without his help.”

  • “The communication model is a simple framework that gives the ability to detach from the emotional roller-coaster that so often accelerates us into chaotic and fearful reactions to problems” (Dr Karambu Ringera, founder of International Peace Initiatives on Barry’s peace training in Kenya)

  • “Barry was quick to understand the organisation, the people and our values and was able to bring a fresh perspective and independent facilitation, which enabled the whole team to take part, whatever their role in the organisation.” Jacqueline Leach – Director, Commonwork, Kent.

  • “Rarely have I met a better listener than Barry, the single most important skill for a coach! Having been a coach myself for over 20 years, it can sometimes be hard to find a good ‘mirror’ myself. Barry has been that for me, on more than one occasion. With his great ability to tune in, his selfless attitude to life and his commitment to guide people to find their essence, Barry is a blessing to work with. He walks the talk!” Rolf Winters MBA, Boardroom consultant, film maker.